Shemeji Mrembo, a Kenyan beauty whom we reported about last time, is in crisis after gossipers blew her identity, opening the door for some Kenyans to begin phoning her to question why she had decided to engage Mazunguko in mapenzi and to put pressure on her to quit.
Speaking to KSB on the phone, she said that some friends have betrayed her because they are jealous that she had real possibilities of beginning her mapepe project with the guy. Although she says that some friends have been supportive, she has accused others of trying to undermine her efforts to fix her stay by constantly opposing her every move.
According to Shemeji, some friends who do not have her interest at heart have been encouraging her to get a single guy or buy mapepe instead of wasting time with married people whom, they say, will use and dump her.
Sounding very relaxed on the phone, she said that she was very surprised with the story at the blog which located her leaving a hotel room with Mazunguko. She said that she left Mazunguko talking to a lady in the hotel to wait for him at the lobby but that Mazunguko never told her that there was danger that what they had done in the room could come out in public after he talked to the lady.
Asked whether Mazunguko’s rib knows that she has been articulating with him, Shemeji said that as far as she was concerned, the two of them have been kissing because Mazunguko had serious problems with his wife and that she did not care whether the wife knew about the relationship or not.
She said that she could have been naïve to have done what she did but added that a person in her situation could sometimes resort to desperate means. She said that Mazunguko has been helping her a great deal and that when she understood that he was having difficulties with his wife, she became sympathetic and later fell in love with him.
When questioned about the kind of help Mazunguko has been giving her, she said that it has mainly been financial while she admitted that the guy has also been giving her hopes in her quest for Mapepe by promising to “do everything in his means” to help.
She called KSB to make it known that she had decided to break up with Mazunguko because the secret was already public and that she doesn’t want to be seen to be bent on destroying a Kenyan family in Stockholm. She also said that she doesn’t want to become the subject of discussion at KSB because her situation was still very delicate.
Asked why she is not trying to trap one of the bachaleros in Stockholm, she said that she had tried but that many of the guys were afraid of getting into serious relationships that could end in marriage because they were mentally immature.
She admitted that although she is not old enough, she is ready to get into a relationship that could end in marriage as long as it was based on love and dismissed KSB story that her affair with Mazunguko may have been based on Mapepe business only.
When questioned further, she said that going public with the truth about her relationship with Mazunguko was part of her “healing process” and appealed to Kenyans to try and help one another especially those in her situation instead of seeking information to try and destroy one another.
She said that she has no grudge with KSB that carried the story because the blog site is simply entertaining its readers. She thanked KSB for not having blown her identity because then, she could have been in deeper crisis with relatives in Kenya who believe that she is studying Economics at Stockholm University while she is struggling with life in the underground.
She said that she has never attempted prostitution as had been suggested in the story and stressed that she will never sell her body regardless of the circumstances. She hoped that Kenyans who already know her will accept her as a person trying her best to sort out her problems after she arrived in Sweden with a lot of hopes and expectation but met with difficulties and disappointment. She refused to go into details about her tribulations in Sweden.
Okoth Osewe
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KSB,the Shemeji and mazunguko “SAGA” is at par with the best of SIDNEY SHELDONS romantic novels…..keep the juice flowing….the suspence is killing me!!declaimer or no declaimer, the saga is synonimous with the wheeling and dealings of wakenyas sagasphere in stocki…..
Shemeji has repeated what so many young Kenyans of her type have done in the past and will continue doing. Mazunguko is konwn for his philandering and will sleep with any woman in the name of “helping” her.
Shemeji just fell for his trashy-flashy-cheap life. By claiming that she will never sell her body, yet was getting “financial assistance” from him, is basically equal to prostitution. She has also committed adultery by sleeping with a man who is married.
If Shemeji was “in love” as she claims here, then why not encourage Mazunguko to divorce? It is well-known that Mazunguko has traversed the Stockholm City looking for poor and vulnerable Kenyan women like Shemeji for many years, taking them to cheap motels for quickies. He will never divorce his wife even for a beauty like Shemeji.
By having a love affair with Mazunguko, Shemeji has tarnished her image completely in Kenya-Stockholm. Had she been smart, she could have stayed with an immature bachelor (as she calls them), until he helped her.
With time, she will learn that Kenya-Stockholm is never sympathetic to women of her character. Patience and caution do mean a lot socially, among local Kenyans who study characters keenly and judge them harshly. This scandal will reach her relatives in Kenya, then that is when her “healing process” will fall apart because they will be seriously heart by her cheap conduct. Watch this space.
Shemeji claims that some friends had betrayed her because they were jealous of her relationship with Mazunguko. Who wants Mazunguko apart from the desperate Shemeji? She should be grateful that her friends were only opening her eyes which had been blinded by dirty money from this womanizer.
Shemeji also talks of falling in love with Mazunguko. Did Mazunguko fall in love with her? Definitely NOT! Sometimes I wonder why some women go weeping later on, when they have themselves to blame for dishing out their bodies to married men, in exchange for money and lifts in cars to go shopping.
A woman’s integrity is judged by the way she carries herself around, especially in the circles of men. Better take time to understand the nature of a man that one intends to indulge with, than displaying utter ignorance by picking somebody you hop around with in cheap, smelly hotel rooms, and when the dirty secret is revealed, you allege betrayal from friends.
Is Shemeji so desperate to live in Sweden? Must a young woman like her believe that younger men are immature and only a married man can help her to stay in Sweden?
It is the likes of Shemeji who give us Kenyan women a bad name because she comes with the Nairobi-type of excitement only to end up being “burned” by such situations. Even if her name is not mentioned at KSB, she is already known; otherwise why would her friends phone her?
Her behavior is similar to Hellen Awuor’s who had a married Nigerian man as a lover and despite being warned several times to break up and get a single man, she insisted that she was in love. KSB has her long story filed and we know its twists and turns.
Shemeji must now take a cleaner path towards getting her residence permit if she wants to live in Sweden. On the other hand, I blame her relatives in Stockholm who know how some men use women in our community. Why didn’t they warn her? Even if she is 18 years and above, she is still in their care and must follow certain rules, otherwise they should kick her out of their home so that she learns a lesson.
Mazunguko is a sugar daddy known for his adultery, yet has a loving wife. He will pay for his immorality sooner or later.
Wahenga walinena: “Mbio za sakafuni huishia ukingoni”. Basi Shemeji ameanza kuona jinsi maisha yalivo kati ya Wakenya mjini Stockholm. Amempa malaya Mazunguko mwili wake na ajue ya kwamba skandali hii itaishi nae milele.
Asitupe porojo kwamba alimpenda, na kadhalika. Yake ilikuwa ni umalaya bila wateja kwenye mistari, maanake pesa alizipokea kutoka kwa Mazunguko.
Mazunguko ajulikana kwa uwongo wake na jinsi anavowatumia wasichana ambao hawana makaratasi. Hawezi kamwe kumuacha mkewe kwa ajili ya utata fulani katika familia. Yeye hufanya umalaya wake huko nje, lakini mwishowe mkewe aja kwanza na utamwona nae katika sherehe mbali mbali kati ya Wakenya.
Shemeji ajitulize kabisa kama anatafuta makaratasi na aache kuzunguka ovyoovyo. Tayari ashawadharau wanaume wachanga basi kama ana urembo wa hali iliochapishwa KSB, mbona asimpate asiye na mke?
Although Romans 3:23 says that: “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”, Mazunguko has sinned numerous times through his adulterous life by sleeping left, right and center, with all sorts of women. He has no conscience, love or emotions, especially for his dear wife.
As for Shemeji, I say: “Shame on you”. I agree with one commentator above who questioned your your morals or pride as a woman. Mazunguko’s eldest daughter is as old as you. Your relatives are capable of taking care of you in Stockholm with pocket money and accommodation, until you meet somebody who respects you and can fix your papers.
Why Shemeji, Why? You will regret your actions later and I pity you for claiming love for Mazunguko, alias Cassanova. He has sampled so many panties around, you are just a statistic.
Mazunguko used to sample a respectable Kenyan woman in the 1990s who had to hide for 5 years before resurfacing among Kenyans. She moved to a European Union country and only comes back to Stockholm once in a while. Even though she covers her background, all the Kenyan bachelors know her past loose life and avoid her.
Do you understand love? It has nothing to do with the money you received from Mazunguko. Reflect upon your life and why you came to Sweden because you are just as confused as you were in Kenya. You have disappointed your relatives by ignoring their advice to keep away from Mazunguko.
Your relatives should have left you to suffer first in Kenya after high school, in order to mature before inviting you to Stockholm. You are the immature one, not the young Kenyan men you diss.
KSB: Preacher, you seem to know some stuff we don’t have in the archive because you raise new aspects of the story that are interesting.
Osewe: Mazunguko is somebody one Loves to Hate because he does not respect his age and marriage. In your first installment, you described how he was once enticed by the wriggling and gyration of Shemeji on the dance floor. He escorted his wife back home and returned to watch and scheme how to enter Shemeji’s “sacred cargo”. This is Mazunguko’s way of life.
He keeps on betraying his marriage by fooling around with some naive, paperless Kenyan women, then goes back to his wife who will always shield him because he can never get another man to live with. She will always take him back despite his “Wild Willy”.
I have a lot of details on Shemeji and I blame her relatives for not being strict with her. No matter how riotous she is, they should have banned her from having an affair with Mazunguko.
KSB: I see your point. I hope they will reform and be nice people like other KSB readers.