A handful of Kenya-Stockholmers who are also capricious consumers of exotic KSB’s recipes have been attempting a shot at the blog’s management due to what they perceive as sudden and mysterious disappearance of scandals from KSB. In a series of phone contacts, smses and uncoordinated emails, these “scandal-seekers” have claimed that they are literally starving because of the apparent evaporation of scandals at KSB despite the existence of numerous “hot storos” that have hit the Kenya Stockholm community arena and which, according to them, ought to be making big headline news as the summer slowly dies away.
Since the Masumbuko scandal, there has been nothing at KSB apart from a stream of video uploads about political and social events. Even after an explanation that KSB agents have been on holiday, ardent scandal-seekers have refused to accept this simple explanation and even went ahead to germinate their own versions of the main problem. It is very amazing that some sadistic Kenyans celebrate when others (especially perceived enemies) are experiencing difficulties or are plunged in deep social, matrimonial or personal economic crisis.
According to one of the pathological scandal seekers who called KSB, the blog site may have frozen scandals because personalities involved in the scandals have very powerful links with top KSB management. The dude accused KSB of selective reporting of scandals depending on whether or not the victim is “sitting in the Cabinet” of KSB’s assembly of friends, a charge that is not true.
The official position of KSB has been that agents have been on holiday and nothing else but according to this contact, there are certain “untouchables” within the Kenya Stockholm community. This view has, however, not been supported by any concrete evidence.
To strengthen their case, a scandal seeker said that the case of a Kenyan who was recently arrested with narcotic drugs at Arlanda International Airport has not been highlighted at KSB although this Kenyan is currently in custody awaiting trial. The guy had allegedly swallowed some stuff from India but when he arrived at Arlanda, he was nabbed. The story has apparently not been published because the guy’s brother is a close buddie of KSB’s President, an allegation which is not true.
When Mr. Njenga had his pre-wedding, a video was shot at the event, uploaded at KSB then pulled down after some discussion with the Njenga’s. Now, some scandal-seekers have claimed that the video was pulled down because the Njengas have entered into the “good books” of KSB for some unknown reasons.
To be honest, Njenga has always been my friend since the asylum days and I do not remember any occasion when himself or myself transferred one another’s names into our “black books”. Reasons why the video was pulled down were clearly outlined at KSB and to claim that there was some kind of favour is anathema. I have pulled down stories before after being approached and credible reasons outlined. The pulling down of Njenga’s video was an ordinary event and to use it to try and strengthen a week point is an indication that KSB critics have become bankrupted.
Threatening Your Hubby with KSB
In the line-up of examples, “the strongest case” that has so far been put forward is that of a Kenyan male who recently split up with his wife under traumatic circumstances but which never found its way to KSB. The woman was allegedly taken away by the Swedish authorities together with her children, a piece of news that some readers believe, ought to have been given wide coverage at KSB.
The accusation is that the victim is a long standing political ally of a top KSB apparatchik and that the failure of this story to see day light at KSB is evidence of favouritism. At the time this event is said to have taken place, agents were on holiday.
The problem is the failure of critics to accept the reality that KSB does not follow people’s personal lives but depend on information brought in by agents. Some Kenyans appear to believe that KSB agents “know everything” happening around the Kenya-Stockholm community and expect to read about anything they come across. This is stupidity.
Even if a husband disagrees with the wife in the bedroom because the woman is hording the goods until her demands are met, KSB is apparently supposed to know about it because either the woman will unknowingly talk to a KSB agent or the guy’s tongue will slip during a swallowing moment at Vasa after which an agent will pick the news and rush it for publication. This is amusing to say the least.
A woman recently called and said that she threatened her stingy hubby to pay for her hair-do or else face exposure at KSB to the effect that he is so poor that he can’t even afford a hair do for his woman. The guy reportedly took an sms loan and fixed the problem. This is the situation we are dealing with and the right word is “ridiculous”. May be, we need to start a “ridiculous session” along the lines of “comedy made in Kenyan-Stockholm”.
What comes out at KSB is normally less than 5% of underground happenings within the community and therefore, the blog site should not be taken to task for failure to report certain so called scandals with charges of mapendekezo flying in the air. A scandal could happen but we fail to get the info and consequently fail to publish it. In any case, KSB is not the “Kenya-Stockholm government” with facilities to follow every activity of every Kenya Stockholmer. Our agenda is to provide news and information as we receive them for entertainment, not for embarassment.
Since May this year, five Kenyans have split up with their women but it is not our responsibility to highlight these splits because the act of splitting is itself not a scandal but a normal and well accepted activity in the world of marriage. If a split is linked to a scandal, then the scandal segment could be part of an illegal or unacceptable activity or behaviour. Obviously, a split with a spouse is a painful experience but when looked at from a wider perspective, it is part of life and Kenya-Stockholmers who have fallen victim are just a tiny fraction of the global divorce club.
To assume that every split-up has to be reported at KSB with a “scandalous angle” is to assume that split ups are abnormal activities which should not happen. Kenya Stockholm scandal seekers need to grow up and leave KSB alone because at a personal level, I blog as a hobby.
“Kenyan Spreading Hepatitis B”
There are some valid points which have been brought up by readers and which could also be mentioned here. According to agents, there is a Kenyan infected with Hepatitis B virus which he is reportedly spreading around through unprotected sexual intercourse. As compared to a marital breakdown, this kind of exposure could be classified as a “scandal” because Hepatitis B has no treatment and transmitting it to others knowingly is actually an illegal activity.
The Kenyan is said to be a sweet talker and lures young paperless women into bed and after hanyaring, he moves on. The problem has reportedly put the Kenyan’s marriage in “grave danger” because the wife has reportedly been unwilling when it comes to opening up her precious goods for unlimited and sumptuous consumption for fear of contracting the disease while the guy also argues that he has to hanya outside because he has no other option when his manyege begins to climb.
Those who brought this scandal to KSB are disappointed and one irate Kenyan even sent an SMS from his/her mobile (sms and mobile number on file) naming the Kenyan and demanding that the scandal be exposed. We don’t do this kind of thing – naming Wakenya and pasting their tribulations at KSB in the name of “exposing scandal”.
We know of the Kenyan whose wife has refused to return to Kenya after she was pumped by propagandists that once she arrives in Kenya, the hubby will begin to hanya other girls who are always “on the ready” literally “with their pants down”. Apparently, there is no shortage of paperless girls trying their luck by opening their shrines to any “papered bull” who appear to be sniffing their presence and the girls don’t care whether or not the bull is another woman’s attachment. The temptation in the face of hopelessness is that the married guy’s instruments may be worked up to get him to divorce his official rib before being trapped into a paper-making project.
The Veteran Hanyaring Newly Arrived Chick
Then, in another juicy case that is still a “developing story”, a Kenyan brought his sweet sister to Stocky recently and now, a scandal seeker has reported that the baby girl is being hanyad by a “Stockholm veteran” who has reportedly taken over her sweet goodies “from top to bottom”. The strategy of the veterani, according to reports, is to use the “attraction of papers” to consume the goods “indefinitely” as he ponders the future. This case is said not to have been reported because the veterani “is very close” to the President of KSB.
Let us examine this case briefly because i find it interesting. What is so scandalous when a Kenyan is hanyaring the sister of another Kenyan who “just arrived”? According to the case, the veterani seduced the chick with his special charms before she voluntarily fell into his arms. The chick’s brother is not just aware but also approved the relationship arguing that his sister is a grown-up who is capable of making up her own mind. In fact, rumours has it that the brother is happy because at least, the chick will not be lured into prostitution by a gang of “Kenya-Stockholm twilight girls” some of whom have so far failed to go into pension (retiremento) because of the lure of easy quid.
In any case, the veterani is not raping the baby girl so why should KSB intervene “in the name of scandal” in a situation where two adults have mutually accepted kuhanyana democratically and in their own private environment? Does it mean that if a Kenyan brings a sister here, the sister cannot be hanyad simply because she is new or what are we talking about? There has been no reports that the baby girl is married neither has any bull claimed her as girlfriend. If the veterani played his cards well and got to her shrine first as others swallowed at Vasa thinking about strategy, why should other defeated bystanders read a “scandal” in the relationship, send material to KSB for publication and make up storos about mapendekezo if their tales are not published?
Besides, the brother of the chick has continued to be very good friends with the veterani despite the relationship so what is the big deal? To accuse KSB of not having reported this “scandal” ni uchokozi. There is nothing illegal the veterani is doing in the process of relieving his balls while there is nothing wrong the chick is doing by getting her parts serviced as she checks things out in complicated kenya-Stockholm. Once again, some Kenyans need to grow up! I will come back to this thread but in the meantime, back to KS-Beers!
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KSB, thanks for the clarification and now we await details of the juicy parts of these stories. On the Veteran with the “paperless” sista of a Mkenya, there is something spicy about the girl’s age… which might add scandal to the story.
Most of the divorce cases are linked to financial disagreements and personal crises involving continuous “kuhanya” among paperless Kenyan chics.
I agree with Osewe that he can only write what he is told. Kenya-Stockholm has numerous strange stories especially among the current pregnant “paperless” Kenyan women concerning their cut-throat ways of securing papers. Some of their deeds are so hot they would blow your PC-monitor while opening them to read.
KSB, the autumn is here so readers will be able to spend more time indoors for the always spicy storos, therefore bring them on.
A horrible scandal that neva got space at KSB was that of this freaking elderly Kenya-Stockholm man who drugged a paperless Kenyan woman whom he was drinking with, then dumped his grandfather stick into her sacred body part all night long without protection. He later bragged that he had taken a woman half his age to bed but she could not match his stamina. The woman was helpless and could not seek legal help because of her paperless status. Evil, evil, evil and saaaad!!!
KSB: That was not even a scandal but a terrible crime. The question is what needs to be done in the face of such brutality.
Kenyans need to take drastic action in the face of such crimes, whether the victim has papers or not. However, the woman was fearful of her paperless status and could not report him to the police. She should have gone for a medical checkup to acertain her condition, given that the fool did not use condoms. He had planned this in advance, a factor which could have strengthened the woman’s case against him.
This criminal is still marauding Kenyan social circles and was seen at a recent summer party seducing women. The woman should have brought her story to KSB to expose the evil man so that people can avoid mixing with him.
As a woman, I would have sent the darn rapist to jail for a long time.
KSB: Well said. I was equally shocked by the inhumanity. Paperless Kenyans need protection just like anybody else.
what goes around comes around.If you hanya around,[umalaya]this is what you get back, ukimwi, hepatitis you name it.Transmitting sexually, a deadly sickness knowingly is a crime in sweden.Test yourself if you are suspicious and report the person to the police. I feel for the wife to the guy,no wonder she failed to give birth after the teenage son.If she refuses with the goods,so how will the marriage work
KSB: Hehehe… You seem to know more about this thing. Contracting Hep-B is a tragic kind of thing and the victim no doubt needs compassion. But spreading it around knowingly simply beats logic and eats up any kind of sympathy.
I dont understand the Kenyans who put pressure on Osewe to fill his blog with stories as if he has nothing else to do in real life during the summer.Its a feva he does to keep us entertained and informed at his own time without pay.
When he puts explicit stories baring out all the graphics, he is again accused of exposing alot and told he runs a blog of scandals.But hey critics,how would you know about your fellow Kenyan pedophile who baby sits your children, the thief, drug dealers, the adulterous woman or man next door if he does not write about them here?
A few years ago a well-known man from a country neighbouring Kenya,committed a serious crime by having sex with an under age girl fathered by a Kenyan man who moved to the USA.The criminal and another man from his country got these kids drank by giving them excessive vodka and took sexual advantage of them in their helpless state.The saddest part was one of the men knew that his own daughter, born by a Swedish ex-wife was also being sexually abused in one of the rooms by his friend, yet did not care because he was also getting his share from the Kenyan man’s child.Wouldnt u want to know this man when you see him at Vasa? He is a common person among Kenyans and he is also a thief who sells clothes stolen from stores like Dressmann.Just imagine this!He was jailed thanx to the girl who told her Swedish mother.
These stories, no matter how weird they sound, are there to wake us up as a community and help us know how dirty some people are among us. Osewe can add salt and pepper to spice up them,omit names etc, but the same stories do rounds with full names of the culprits at Vasa,Södra Station,Kenyan meetings,or other social gatherings.
Thanx to Osewe for his time and dedication.The other day he had to explain that he is not paid for advertising other peoples parties at KSB.Somebody had the nerve to tell him it was illegal to get paid by promoting info at WordPress – as if Osewe could run the blog without knowing such rules!Such Wakenya should appreciate his work at KSB and put aside petty wrangles.
KSB: Well said. I know I have a lot of fans and loyal supporters. May be, we need to Party and celebrate every KSB birthday.
Talk about hepatitis B,there are 3 kinds of hepatitis,A; B and C.Please make sure you get vaccinations for A and B.Men,women,teenagers,children of all age and all at large.It is spread through sex,food ,a hospital visit and blood transfusion .Anyone can be infected.Many of us are at risk zone.Vaccinations are combined for hepatitis A and B.
KSB: Thanks Kirigo for that hind sight. I hope that readers have taken note.
well, I like it when ksb inform us on events happening on the kenyans things in stockholm, but who goes to bed with who , is it really our business.? its like reminding me how many men i had before i got my two children. it crazy. pls guy we should glow upp n forget thing like “veterani” its not worth readíng. tuhesimiane pls
KSB: This is what the article is saying. Some people aka watu wengine thought that KSB had “sat” on the storo but our position is that the mkamyago was a normal activity that did not warrant attention at KSB. We are together on this.
the story bout vetetani is really juicy to me personaly cause i had a relationship with him but i got really dissapointed.i know the guy well n he is not the kind for paperless. he is so in love with another woman n he never says to anyone. they call each other”bestys” to hind it from wakenyas, but many know that there is more to it than meet the eyes. even the former to the wife is aware of it. i still love the guy but i know his problems, you can never reach him without going throw the woman lover. they are so close and if am wrong, try every social thing and they are allways together. a word to mwenye kuhanywa, you can hanywa but look beyound or you get yourself with other women in the veterani interests.
KSB: Being in love is not wrong per se. people fall in and out of love all the time. I still don’t understand why people are attacking this guy. He is leading a normal romantic life and he is not cheating on anybody.
The woman whose husband is infected with Hepatitis B should report him to the necessary Swedish authorities because it is a crime to knowingly spread a disease.
Surely, all the “dogs” out there, don’t you have the decency of wearing condoms while on the job? Some men are yesteryear Neanderthals who will chase any skirt and dip their spears inside them without considering the consequences. And the ladies who fall for such losers, what do you think? Some diseases are so horrible that even if there is a good healthcare system in Sweden, it is best to be safe and not contract them at all.
Take Kirigo’s advice seriously and get vaccinated. Ignorance and the I don’t care attitude, meaning: “thinking with your trousers and not brains (whether male or female) is the cause of many diseases leading to death among many Africans”.
Hepatitis B: Hepatitis B is a potentially life-threatening blood-borne disease of the liver, which is transmitted primarily by sexual activity or exposure to blood. About 20 percent of those infected progress to chronic liver disease. A form of viral hepatitis, hepatitis B is quite
common worldwide.
http://www.epidemic.org/glossary/glossaryH/
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KSB: Davie: We are not going to publish anything that could lead to the direct identification of an individual. For this reason, your posting has not been approved. Regardless of the scandals, people’s identities must be protected especially when they are the subjects of scandals.
Was just testing to see whether its the guy coz i have heard rumours circulating that its him.kumbe uko na copy?
KSB: Weee Davie, wacha. Niko komand base. Niko na orij, sio copy.
Even as we sit reading KSB, another veterani from the 1970s generation recently inherited the wife of another veteran Kenya-Stockholmer.
KSB: Let us be clear on some things. The question here are the circumstances. If the Veterani’s wife was divorced or dead, then this should be a normal activity. But if the relationship still stands, then it becomes a scandal. That is how we see it. We need to differentiate between scandal and unfortunate developments.
Swedish records that we are privy of indicate that the Veterani’s wife is still married. I can unleash raw evidence if required. It is a big scandal because legally she remains married, so the other Veterani is chewing manyake clandestinely.
KSB: People could be married/unmarried for convenience regardless of what the records say. Does visiting the wife of a friend who is away constitute kuhanya? Kuhanyana remains a private affair unless there is concrete evidence of adultery, fornication, rape, incest or pedophile activity. What is being ALLEGED here is adultery but so far, the only evidence available are allegations that the guy visits the lady.
Yaani wakenya are this dirty. sending sms email to ksb just to turnish people names, what do they get out of it? and who are these called agents? do they have something concret they are doing ama ni watu wa social bidrag? sometimes i find it diffícult to go thru a paper juu sina time and others have time to haribia wengine names.
its high time ksb refuse to publish comments or articals that are aimed for gossip. wasindwe
KSB: We could understand the sms because the idea was to send signals that someone could be spreading Hepatitis to unsuspecting people. A Kenyan is doing prison term because of an HIV connection. However unfortunate, having Hepatitis in itself is not wrong and anybody can contract it. Spreading it knowingly is what is unacceptable. This is the point. It has nothing to do with bidrag. Leave KSB agents alone. All major newspapers in Sweden have hot lines where you can call anonymously and give info. Get the wider picture.
Karume: Get off your high horse and stop branding KSB agents “watu wa social bidrag”. You have a choice NOT to be at KSB if you think it is a lowly site. I hope you stay scandal-free otherwise you will be reading your deeds here soon.
As noted, spreading infectious diseases knowingly is a crime in Sweden and whoever alerted KSB on the Hepatitis case did a great service. Are you a friend of the culprit and want to defend him?
Karume, are you the Hepatitis B carrier who is randy and spreads it to women since you don’t use protection??? Wake up and grow some ballz because your reaction against KSB agents was way below the belt. If you don’t have the time to read the “paper” as you call it, then what time do you have to puke uncalled for comments here? You must be the “mtu wa social bidrag”.
Paperless women should be careful about the type of men they meet for the sake of getting papers. It is a fact that many men (black or white) will take full advantage of their desperate situation and yet leave them without those papers they desire. There are women who hop from man to man thinking that it is the only way to get papers.
A woman’s integrity is controlled and maintained by herself and respect for the body is equally important. Know whom you sit with to drink at a pub or socialize with, otherwise you will just add onto the numbers of women who have to go through horrible experiences for residential permits.
The elderly man who drugged a paperless Kenyan girl is a well-known loser who cannot even meet his children who spite him because of his irresponsibility. As a woman, why give such a fool an audience in the first place?
Huyu mr.hepatitis should be exposed without simpathy juu tabia zake zimeoza,ni tabia za kishenzi za kuhanyahanya kote kote, hana rika, anafagilia wote.KSB in the beginning pointed out that the man is a sweetalker and ndinda too pointed that he was seen at a recent summer party seducing women.Besides, he is a family man.Kwa hivyo karume wacha kuingilia KSB juu women whether paperless or not should be aware of this wicked man juu anybody can fall a victim.
I would like Jipcho and luseno to know that i am not the hepatitis man neither do i know who he is.At the same time i would like you guys to know i dnt surport anyone spreading dangerous diséases. if anyone is doing that then he or should be reported to the authorities. what am against is cheap gossip za vasa temple.I dont hate watu wa bidrag, but i meant they belong to the group that have alot of time doing nothing. i study monday to friday and work almost all wkds, that why i wonder how these called agents manage.
Acha madharau Karume. Vasa carries all sorts of Africans and Kenyans in particular. You are so full of yourself by trying to portray KSB agents as idlers. You would be so surprised to know that the majority have a schedule which is much busier than yours. If you want to divert this topic into “Vasa Gossip” then be specific and mention what type of gossip. Otherwise you seem to be generalizing issues so far.
Karume, you should appreciate that without KSB agents, you would not be aware of the Hepatitis man or other wayward people among us. Don’t derail the topic which has been well contributed to so far. If you want to challenge the views presented here, do so with good points, but don’t drag in social categories assuming that the agents spend time on KSB matters more than doing worthwhile things.
We should come into contact with some judiciary or hotlines that support all,regardless “paperless“ or not.That way we can get lead off such “`papers“.But we should not take-off the condoms until both partners are tested,time,behavoiur should not determine HIV- OR STD-FREE.
Dont go to much on “papers” issue cause i am just a student in stockholm. but with or with no papers am stil a kenyan.lakini can we not deal with important issues. i have no problem if the hepatitis guy is exposed and all others who claim that their next of kin have died only to orgnise harambees and leave kenyans poor in stockholm. 5 yrs in chambele has tought me alot. pole ma agents kama nime wakosea.let be positive.
KSB: Very good attitude Karume. You clearly have an intellectual perspective on this issue – agreeing and disagreeing on the basis of presented logic without being personal. The key message is “Let us be positive”.
There are hotlines that assist all anonymously regardless of residential status. Under the United Nations Charter, all human beings are equal, though it is clear that those with papers (in this case), are more equal than the paperless.
The best a paperless person can do is to avoid trouble by all means. Sometimes many of them throw caution to the wind and start enjoying certain social trappings and forget that if nubbed by the Swedish police, there would be no mercy but to face deportation as soon as possible for overstaying. Just remember: “Ignorance is no excuse for breaking the law”.
In the case of those women who have sex with the likes of ‘Mr. Hepatitis’ who is married, they are to blame because it takes two to tango. If they do it without condoms, then they are the biggest fools and must take responsibility for their actions. Commentator #23 above, has echoed the usage of condoms until both partners are tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and are hopefully not sick, but must also remain faithful.
What do such women expect from married men? The best is to keep off them completely, no matter how much sweet words they whisper in their ears. No wonder when the men use and dump them, these women become bitter and revenge by spilling their sex stories to their wives, causing breakups.
One can test anonymously for STIs but if found positive, that is when trouble begins because one may be asked to bring the person or people who infected her for testing too. The doctor may also ask for a full identification of the infected.
Anyway, the Swedish Red Cross provides paperless pregnant women with free of charge medical assistance. There is also a group of “Anonymous Doctors” that assist paperless people and underground refugees. One can also test anonymously for STIs at RFSL:
Testing and treatment
In Sweden, the best places to go for treatment are hospitals with venereal disease clinics, sexual counseling clinics, youth clinics and student health clinics.
If you go to a general clinic that does not specialized in, but who have six with but, you may have to point out that they should take tests of your throat, anus and urethra.
In order to prevent further spreading to others, those who are infected with diseases that cases under the Communicable Disease Act (Syphilis, Chlamydia, gonorrhoea, hepatitis and HIV) are required to provide the names of the people they’ve had six with, so -called partner tracing.
The clinic will then contact your sexual partners to be sure everyone gets treatment. You may choose to remain anonymous, and if you prefer, you may contact your sexual partners yourself.
http://www.rfsl.se/halsa/?p=1872
Hepatitis A, B, C, Also called jaundice, because the skin and the Whites of the eyes sometimes turn yellow. Other symptoms include fever, a feeling of tiredness and nausea.
There are several variants of hepatitis: the most common are A, B and C.
Hepatitis A and B are spread through anal, oral and vaginal sex and also through Kissing. You can vaccinate against Hepatitis B, and if you are a man who have sex with other men it is free of charge.
Hepatitis C is spread almost exclusively through infected blood.
In most cases, the infection clears up on its own, but B and C can become chronic. There are vaccines for A and B. In most counties in Sweden, the Hepatitis B vaccine is available free of charge on Thursday for gay and Bisexual men.
Incubation period
A: 2-6 weeks, B: 4-24 weeks, C: 4-12 weeks
Testing:
Blood test
Treatment:
Some treatment is available
Using a condoms reduces the risk
http://www.rfsl.se/halsa/?p=1869
KSB: Thanks Jipcho for that dose. I hope that interested readers will now begin to digest it.
Karume, it is good that you have taken a positive turn in this and decided to throw in the towel. Five years is still a “Welcome to Sweden” period not enough for you to know the complicated social structure of Kenya-Stockholm.
KSB is a great outlet that informs and entertains. Let us leave it at that and respect the agents who, just like Osewe, work tirelessly without pay to make you read both scandals and important news.
Stop it.who cares.Blame the ladies because they too want to be hanywand.They are very much aware xxxx xxxxx,they witnessed dash dash dash… .Now she”s afraid of me consuming xxxxxx xxx xxx.Am a man and i have to look for xxxx xxxx.you ladies out there should also be responsible for your manyege”s and keep your legs closed otherwise thats what you will always get back.I don”t rape anybody,you give it willingly without caring about condoms or the consequences.Don”t put the blame on me only.
KSB: Ben, you seem to be trying to impersonate someone. This strategy gives comments a bad name. If you are the real guy fighting back, call me.
To ben: you say that you dnt rape women, they give it to you willingly without caring about condoms or the consequences. my God, you scare me. you mean you are one of the guys who say “nyama kwa nyama” in this time and era. you are not serious with your life and you dont seems to care for anyone at all. from the way you sound, you dnt even seem to have respect for women. am not been personal but your attitude to women leaves alot to be desired.look at the mirror and change that person you see
Ben: The Swedish Law of Communicable Diseases Act, 1985, permits registration of infected people, compulsory partner notification, tracing and isolation of patients who are spreading the infection. This should be distinguished from the Swedish Penal Code: the criminal law that is applied when a person is spreading the infection purposely.
Once diagnosed, people are required by law to inform sexual partners about their infection and to adopt safe sex behaviors such as obligatory condom use. The law aims at balancing the interest in protecting the public against contagious diseases and protecting the infected person’s security and integrity.
As Osewe suggested, if you are the one infected with Hepatitis and wish to fight back through your response above, then you need to be cautious because the Law above emphasizes full responsibility of disclosure of infection status by the subject to the sex partner of the moment.
You claim the women you have sex with are horny enough not to ask you to wear condoms, thus are equally responsible for whatever consequences they face afterwards. Fine, but whan push comes to shove, the Law is an ass and you the infected person, will be held accountable.
Have you reversed positions and asked yourself what would happen if one of those women you have casual sex with infects you with something deadlier? Protection cuts both ways and your sexual organs would not be spared in case of another more severe disease from your ‘collection’ of women for casual sex. Your wife is smarter to deny you sex because she knows you will infect her.
You are lucky to sleep around with a bunch of stupid women, otherwise if you attempt the same on the smarter ones, you will find your sorry ass in jail.
http://www.smittskyddsinstitutet.se/upload/Publikationer/Report2001.pdf
KSB: Right on the Mark Betty. These kinds of comments are very educative. Have you been in touch with Joyce after her Masters? You can alwats reach me thru the other link.
We need all forms of comments amidst the morass existing in the Kenya-Stockholm community. KSB: Thanks for asking about Joyce. She is doing fine after her Master’s and got a placement in Hong Kong for six months and will return to Gothenburg University early next year.
Sexuality is used and told that it puts down a woman`s dignity and measures the respect one ought to give to a woman.But religiously ,culturally and in the world today it
is important.Majority of men and women in the world are having sex.Why do africans use sex to measure a nice woman whereelse it is the men who chase and hunt women almost always?If a woman kataa maneno ,it becomes unbearable thing to be accepted.I think women should measure the men`s capability instead.
Sex therapists e.g dr.Oz,says that one can prolonge a lifetime by having good sexlife.
I think we should talk of sex on a lovely way and accept sex is apart of our humanity.
Women should beat up this men`s measure.Men it is time you looked for other ways of putting down a woman.
Ben: It’s interesting how you add flesh to the skeleton of Mr. Hepatitis, who might be you in your comment. The information you provided can be referred to or even be used as prima facie evidence if one of your women decides to challenge you within the Swedish Law against spreading communicable diseases knowingly.
Although “Ignorance is bliss”, in your case, the Hepatitis infection is a public secret known to your wife and possibly a cross-section of the women you commit adultery with. But maybe the thought is: “It won’t kill me”. Be warned that Hepatitis B is dangerous and quite debilitating. The Swedish law would therefore not spare you if accused of spreading it knowingly.
The infamous Iraninan ‘HIV-man’ remains at large, having fled Sweden in 1998 after when accused of having unprotected sex with 130 women and infecting his girlfriend, yet knew that he was HIV+. Earlier on, Osewe gave the example of a Kenyan currently in Swedish jail for doing the same.
Ben, you must be going around feeling like “Bull of the Kraal”. But do you consider the taxpayer’s burden of treating your foolishness? It is therefore incumbent upon you to use condoms when having sex with those women, even if they don’t ask you to wear them.
The HIV Man’s story: http://www.thelocal.se/6145/20070119/
KB: Maina, we have been missing you here. Welcome back.
Dame, I beg to differ with your question: “Why do Africans use sex to measure a nice woman wherereelse (sic) it is the men who chase and hunt women almost always?”
First, you should desist from generalizing issues upon African men and narrow it to the relevant group. I can only answer you that given a free environment like Sweden, why should women also suck up to such African men? What about their integrity and respect for sex? If you mean that men ’sort out’ the good and bad women through sex, then it is naive because there are many African men who value their women beyond sex.
More and more African women are today empowered to make better choices in terms of their sexual needs, unless you come across rape and the usage of drugs for the advantage of male perpetrators.
For the Kenya-Stockholm women who sleep around with any African man they meet, they might be having problems with their own self-esteem and think that the more sex partners they have, the more attractive they are. It’s been mentioned by many KSB commentators that Kenyan women need to raise the ’seduction bar’ a notch higher so as not to turn out as cheap and easy lays.
Lili,many women are on denial when it comes to sex desires.They are seduced,have desire and are attracted to someone,but the thought of being seen loose and easy makes them live in denial.
No matter living in Kenya or Sweden the desires are there.Men go “loose“by picking any Achieng,Njeri or Kamere.Right now sex education is not a theme in our society,but lots of teenagers are taught to abstain from sex which if we count from our greatfathers time most young people began having sex as teens and girls married away as teens.We should also not forget hormons are one of the reason why one gets desires despite what.
So I am convinced no matter what,we should see women`s sexuality on another way.
I really like the words of karume ( 28) i have a feeling this ben is the guy with hepatitis or he he hinding something. many has given info bout this ugojwa. if he not carefull, he will end in jail
I fully agree with Lili that some Kenya-stockholm women tend to show cheap traits when they indiscriminately jump into bed with men like Mr. Hepatitis.
A good example was the case of the Kenyan HIV infected man jailed because of having unprotected sex with women yet he knew his Hiv+ status. Some of the Kenyan women he charmed and slept with look quite decent and respectable, yet further investigations have revealed that they are the cheap type who get carried away with sweet nothings by such men.
Mr. Hepatitis wrong as he is, has also taken a swipe at the women he sleeps with who never ask him to use condoms. Whichever way, such people are the ones making the respectable ones look bad because a general picture is that our community if full of promiscuous men and women.
KSB: It’s been a long time, but I am back with gusto to pen my thoughts on this hot piece. First and foremost, having unprotected sex while carrying an infectious disease is a no-no bordering upon illegality within the Swedish law. Notification to a sex partner if infected is a MUST and any woman who goes to bed without questioning a man’s status is a fool (whether drank or sober).
Women are more susceptible to sexually transmitted infections (STIs) compared to men because of the nature of our reproductive organs. President Zuma of South Africa boasted a few years ago that he had unprotected sex with a woman whom he knew was infected with HIV but avoided contracting the disease by washing his penis with cold water. That was as stupid as some African men can get. Many men must have followed his actions and probably ended up getting infected and are possibly now lying six feet under.
It’s been repeated here that ignorance is no excuse for breaking the law. The philanderer now referred to as Mr. Hepatitis at KSB, is aware of his infection but continues to have sex left and right without caring. The entry by “Ben” indicates that he “services” the needs of women who want it and don’t request for condoms.
Now let’s map Mr. Hep’s sex habits. Ben wrote that since his wife has refused to have sex with him (because she knows he “dogs” around and does not want to be infected), then he gets it elsewhere. Given his adulterous life, it’s rumored he has no age barriers and goes for any woman. His chest-thumping indicates that he has slept with as many as he can and counting. Consider that his male sexual organ penetrates the woman’s organ and directly injects infected semen inside, then Voila! Hepatitis B has spread to Ms/Mrs. X, who in return spreads it to her husband or boyfriend, because she knows they are clean and will not use condoms. The blame game begins and infighting leads them to accusations of spouse cheating which results into breakups. Mr. Hep continues his pattern and strolls around feeling he is the He-Man of Kenya-Stockholm who satisfies sexually-hungry women.
This intricate process can be magnified a million times and it’s no wonder that Africans in Sweden are among those who top the list of the most infected immigrants with STIs. Common sense and NOT stupidity should lead one into a sexual relationship.
KSB: This is an interesting angle. Can women and gals who have been hanyad as you describe stand up to be counted. We could be handling a whole population of Wakenya infected without their knowledge. Honestly, this thing could be bigger than we think! Could it be that the 19 year old paperless gal who was a regular customer has already passed it to Man Popote who split with Lady Nyamakima currently on the arms of Waziri? Jameni, we may need a Commission of Enquiry because Waziri is also hanyaring Dame Mrembo! Kenya-Stockholmers need to call a “Crisis meeting” before sinking even deeper. How could this have happened?
Dame: I have read thoroughly your entries #31 and 34 but still miss the gist of your argument. I think there is a clear generational diversity in sexuality between the Kenyan women who were brought up in Kenya and came to Sweden as adults, versus the young women born or brought up in Sweden.
Sexuality is individual but also influenced by societal attitude and formal institutions like schools, from where teenagers pick up various perspectives. In the case of Kenyans, parents and guardians mean a lot in the lives teenagers as they grapple with their sexuality. African cultural barriers hinder some men from discussing these with their daughters and women with their sons.
In terms of dealing with adults, women should be aware of the Swedish laws that protect them from spousal abuse and other forms of maltreatment common in Kenya. With reference to Mr. Hepatitis, he mentioned that he does not rape those women who come to him voluntarily. Maybe this is how they (women) understand their sexuality; give ‘it’ to any man. A respectable woman would definitely know her limits: no having unprotected sex with a married man bearing an infectious disease. I think such acts border upon prostitution on the part of such women and have nothing to do with men choking their sexuality.
KSB: Very mature analysis.