A crisis of sorts is brewing in a flat in Stockholm where a paperless Kenyan chick is effectively going through “hell on earth” after delivering a bouncing baby boy to a white Swedish dude. According to a team of KSB agents who have fished the storo from the deep depths of “Vituko Ocean” in Kenya-Stockholm and who have code-named the Kenyan chick “Lady Babito”, the Swedish father was opposed to the pregnancy from day one after he learnt that Lady Babito’s belly had something coming up and that he was responsible.
The Swede is reported to have gone wild because he was not yet ready to begin baby-sitting while he allegedly argued that Lady Babito had tricked her into the “baby-come-paper-come” game as a strategy of settling in Sweden.
Another problem that strengthened the Jungu’s serious opposition to the pregnancy was that his parents warned him “tusen gånger” (A thousand times) not to ever think about giving them a Nigger for a grandchild under any circumstance.
The Swede then proposed to Babito that she needed to conduct an abortion, an option which Babito refused because for her, she had worked so hard to clinch what Kenya-Stockholmers refer to as a “Paper-Kid”.
At first, the Swede is reported to have thought that the matter was very simple since the case touched on an “accidental pregnancy” that could be flashed out at Karolinska hospital within minutes and the chick would be back walking in the streets two hours after the operation. He was mistaken.
As the Jungu began to amass pressure that Babito book time with the gynecologist to discuss an abortion, the Kenyan chick simply changed tact. She began to get militant and to warn her Jungu boyfriend that abortion was not in her vocabulary under the circumstances and that the baby would not just be carried to term but would also be delivered right here in Stockholm with or without papers.
This position forced the Jungu to review his battle plan. He began to threaten Babito that he would call police to arrest her and deport her before she could even deliver. However, cleaver Babito had her own plans. When she learnt about the moves her boyfriend was making, she melted from his world like thin ice. She moved from the guy’s apartment to begin counting her days away from threats about police. It was not until two weeks ago when she delivered a bouncing baby and a “Nigger-bull” at that.
Jungu Visits His Baby “Empty Handed”
The new born had not entered the world easily. Babito had to go through a CS after doctors concluded that normal delivery was not possible. In other words, Babito left hospital a few days later, both as a mother and a patient. Her boyfriend had shown her the “Red card” as far as accommodation was concerned and with nowhere to go, she linked up with a Kenyan lady who sympathized with her situation and accommodated her temporarily as she began the process of motherhood.
Punde si punde, the father of the newborn got wind about the news. He quickly made arrangements to make a connection. According to sources, the new Daddy was both anxious and excited about the news. When he saw his new boy, he is reported to have been physically elated and since then, he has been making very frequent visits to see his son.
As they say, “experience is the best teacher”. The new daddy has been making visits to see the baby without carrying any goodies. The Jungu has not yet understood that new babies need some things called diapers because they pass waste almost on a constant basis. The Kenyan lady who accepted to accommodate Babito made it clear that she was not in a position to afford the child’s basic up-keep.
She is herself having a baby to look after and the presence of Babito with her baby in the house has been stressful. Just before she delivered, Babito was being assisted periodically by the International Red Cross although the exact nature of this help could not immediately be established.
What is shocking is that although he appears to like his son, the Jungu Daddy has refused to house both the mother and the son saying that he will have nothing to do with the would-be family members, a position that has shocked some Kenyans who are wondering whether the Jungu is a human being or a wild animal.
In the meantime, the Jungu’s paroz do not even want to know the name of the Nigger grandchild. In fact, they are hoping that he won’t be named “Svensson”, a typical Swedish name. Sources say that because of the circumstances, Babito has not officially named her baby although a KSB agent picked up a name currently being used to refer to the baby.
A crisis is brewing because despite her delicate nature, Babito has no permanent abode. The Kenyan lady who rescued her in the beginning has too much on her hands and she told Babito that she ought to look for alternative accommodation so Babito fixed a new abode after another woman from Kenya accepted her in although it is not known how long she will be at the place.
New Baby “On the Verge of Starvation”
Apart from accommodation problems, another major problem facing Babito and her new born is that as a result of her operation, lack of appetite, stress linked to the child’s rejection by his father, depression, psychological set-backs, mounting frustrations, uncertainty, post-natal pressures, paperlessness and serious worries about the future, Babito has lost a lot of weight.
The consequence is that she does not have enough milk for breast-feeding and, according to sources, the baby “is on the brink of starvation”. Since Babito is not eating properly, the situation has been worsening by the hour.
To prevent the baby from starving to death due to shortage of breast milk, those around Babito recommended that the kid be put on formulas, an expensive option that Babito’s helpers are unable to afford. It is reported that the child is feeding “by the Grace of God”.
Paradoxically, the new Daddy has not understood the problem and when he goes to admire his son, he doesn’t carry with him any food or formulas. He probably thinks that the son is feeding on airburgers!
Despite her problems, Babito is reported to be very strong. She believes that she has gone through worse times while she is reported to have vowed to fight on despite the difficulties.
Members of the Kenya-Stockholm community should help Babito by donating diapers and child food at the minimum. She also needs legal help because since she is paperless, she doesn’t know what to do and appears afraid of the Swedish authorities especially after the father of the child threatened to get her deported to Kenya.
She needs a pram because the Jungu Daddy has not yet clicked that kids are normally pushed around in prams, not just admired. Kenyans, friends and well-wishers also need to talk to the Jungu Daddy and pump him with stuff about his responsibilities as a Daddy regardless of the circumstances. You don’t cease to become a Daddy because a child was born against your will.
Most importantly, Babito needs compassion from caring people in Sweden. Her situation is both desperate and tough for a woman who is nursing both a wound on her belly and a new baby. Kenyan women and men alike, fathers, mothers, grandies, singles, everybody should meet to set up a “Support Group” to help this lady because sympathy is good but it’s not enough.
Okoth Osewe
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This Jungu Daddy must be a real a$$hole for being obssessed with his son, yet not understand that he needs more than physical bonding. He should naturally understand that since the mother is in distress after the operation, and especially being paperless, he should help her with material needs.
As suggested by KSB, Kenyans need to urgently group up to assist this young mother in raising the child during this crucial moment.
The Swede is a very close friend to another Kenyan family, so by now he should have understood a lot about Kenyans. On the other hand, am shocked that the Kenyan woman in that family has not pumped into his shallow head the urgency of assisting his son. I hope this alert at KSB will make him think twice.It is a big shame that a child is semi-starving yet the father can buy him infant formulas to supplement the scarce milk from the mother.
What a shame!i hope we can help the Kenyan lady.
Pole kwa huyo dame,hope she keeps strong,I can give her some toys and baby items,give me her number .
This article is very touching and I wish the mother and the baby all the best at this difficult time.Many would like to assist this poor mother so can the author of this article tell us where and how to channel our help i.e an a/c number or a phone no.to call.Shame on this useless father!Bure kabisa!!!!
It is so tragic and sad that the innocent baby is the sufferer in the scheme and intrigues surrounding getting those elusive mapepes. Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t bringing a child to this world usually a process that requires planning and commitment, and not, as it seems, a means to an end? What kind of start to life is this for the poor child? Conceived and born to secure the mother mapepe. This is shameful to say the least, if not immoral. Innocent children should never be used as pawns to further ones station in life regardless of the circumstances. I have no sympathies whatsoever for the mother, who bears the brunt of responsibility in this case. What of the father? I bet those reading this by now think I’m being male chauvinist, but the truth of the matter is, as wahenga put it, “Uchungu wa mwana ajuaje ni mamma”. The father will naturally be obligated, by law, to monetary provide for the child until it attains 18 yrs but not everything in the child’s life will be about money or food on the table. If one cannot fathom this fact, then I seriously think they should revaluate any thoughts of parenthood and take the necessary measures to prevent “accidents” occurring. Congratulations to the mother for her contribution towards the lost, degenerate and rootless generation of “child for papers” children in Sweden.
People reading this might think the father of this article is a bad person or that everything here stated is correct. But the truth is this: this man has been there for his son from day zero and he has and still provides, because he loves his son dearly. One wonders what the person who wrote this aim to benefit from this. This is the life of a child.
Gosh,Milton, your words were hard and heartless. Yes, you are very right on schemed and selfish pregnancy,but very wrong on blaming the mother alone. The jungu enjoyed ‘unwrapped’ goodies right? Yes. And he knew relatively well the juicy goodies could bear fruits of all kinds? YES! If he dint want a baby,or in this case,if he never planned to help the chick settle the baby way he could have insisted on firm jualas. All the time! But he dint. He,infact he should hug and thank his chick for giving him a baby and not funny un-ending rashes and itches as a result of low tone talked about kamdundu! Sticking to your point,can this successful bull support the innocent baby,and stop behaving like a walking zombie. Milton,Many have tried, trapped and pulled papers baby style. This was just an accident. And no one deserve it when it struck All the best to the mother. And may she get a supportive group to encourage her in the days ahead. Lastly,prayers works. Help her in prayers too,who knows,the jungu might give them a surprise visit with surprising news of ‘I love you and need you home with me’ may it be. And soon!
Harriet:I believe there was no other intention in the article other than to highlight the grim situation facing a child who is half-starving and in need of food supplements.Yes, the father has been there from the time he was born,but verbal/physical love never adds food into his son’s stomach.Action means carrying food and other material needs with him to assist whenever he visits.The child has already been born so we deal with the situation as it is.
Meanwhile, others living in glass houses can keep throwing stones,yet their path to making papers was not different.It’s easy to forget the problems one went through while making papers by condemning others because they are now comfortable.
Shiku,how right you are in your comment.Muigai has taken a hard line though his opinion must be respected too. Howenver, the kids already here so should wakenya let the mother sufer if the father cant provide the extra milk and napkings?After all thea are so many children who are wayward dispite having mum and dad at home.Shiku is right that the jungu shud have used protection so is equally to blame.let us help the mother and child.The rest they can sot out themselves!
This story ya mapepa ni shida,from day 1 huyo dame ni kuplania mapepa instead of thinking what shit she gonna put the kid into.Next time play your cards wisely.Maybe l can help with some daipaz.
Let us deal with the current plight of the mother and child because no matter how much we curse,the kid had no sufficient food.It has happenedd but we must remain united as Kenyans and other sympathizers, to make a difference in their lives. U don’t have to help if you don’t want to. Check on the kid’s needs and put tensions aside.
Muigai, was your paper making process that smooth?
Let me clarify my position since the general consensus is that my earlier comments were ”harsh”. There are two issues here, but I addressed only the first as I assumed the second would be self-evident. However, since some commentators are mixing up the two, let me be candid and reiterate the saga as I see it:
Firstly, the mapepe making schemes were pregnancy and children are used as a means to the obvious end. This is cold, calculated and egoistic. Anyone who plays this card is irresponsible and does not have a shred of decency in them. Granted, circumstances may vary and decisions made under pressure, but as the article gives the following parameters in the saga:
– The jungus parents had registered their stringent opposition to any “nigger” grandchild.
– The jungu was against the idea of parenthood form the day the realized his lover was pregnant.
– The jungu begins to issue threats of forcible deportation by involving the police.
– The girl does a runner, and gives birth to her child in while hiding. Since the baby is now a fact, the girl probably figures out that this will bring pressure to bear on the jungu to release mapepe, kwani?
An already chaotic situation now becomes even more complicated by the arrival of the baby. Is this the kind of atmosphere that a child should be brought into this world? The baby and mother are without permanent abode; dependent on the goodwill and resources of kind-hearted Kenyan’s like the woman who has taken them in (hongera kwake); are on the brink of starvation (in the First World at that!), not because of El-nino or delayed rains, but because of gross miscalculation on the girls part. If my words condemning this kind of irresponsibility and shortsightedness are harsh, they are in my opinion well deserved and I make no apologies. This girl isn’t the first to pull this kind of stunt, and probably will not be the last, but at least let us have the moral courage and backbone to make decisions that avoid traumatizing innocent children. Let us learn to draw the line somewhere and be brave enough to tell other Kenyans when they are wrong, even if it is not popular and one ends up being considered a “spoiler”.
Secondly, the situation as is requires remedy. I have not stated anything to the contrary. The mother and child do need support and assistance regardless, but the issue must be addressed “iwe funzo kwawengine” to avoid repetition and any lapses. KSB has already taken the initiative and set the boll rolling, with Kenyan’s already offering a helping hand. This is admirable and heart warming.
Finally, to Nipenikupe; I never engaged in any paper making schemes. That was, is and will never be an option.
Congratulations Mr.Milton Muigai,you are the man of the day!!these kenyan women dont want to accept mistakes.Well,the sleeping Dogs have woken up.l mean jungus knows kuna deal ya kupata papers by going through some dirty games.By the road,hawa madame wameland Sweden juzi,wacheni kujifanya you know more than those who are here like 20yrs.
Why are women always on the blaming end? As Shiku asked,why wasnt the baby father clever enough to know that unprotected goodies can produce a `nigga’ baby anytime? Was he responsible or irresponsibe? He could have put a stern face right from the time he un-zipped his trousers. But he got tempeted and schemed on how to eat real and sweet. This make him irresponsible too. Now that they are both schemers can they for a moment forget about them papers and take care of the innocent soul.
And by the way Milton and Obama waht about men who scheme to get papers the baby way? or those are considered real bulls?
Sadly ,peope will never learn as far as mapepe are concerned. Not her in Sweden. The only way out is for the gorvernment to come strong and say NO to any one who try to get mapepe baby way. havent we heard of ladies who are murdered in the name of trapping guys ?
Well people lets not cheat ourselves,this lady has put herself and the baby in big trouble,She got the baby because she wanted to live in sweden(big shame)she could use other ways to get papers instead of getting pregnant,now she has to have it tough double ,waiting for her papers and in sweden there r no maids ,its only u.I feel ur pain but I have no sympathies to offer u,this was something u planned and who ever your friends are who advised you,get back to them,as for the child ,it will not sturve like you put it, we live in a mordern world and there is help everywhere here in sweden,I can give you the number to call or ask OSEWE he can give you the numbers,help will come running to ur door step,To the paperless ladies out there lookin for papers learn from this,get a baby with someone you want to have a family with but not for papers what a shame.How about if your child grows up and being called papperboy/girl she/he will hate u to death.My advice to you is talk to the father of the child and impress him the same way you did when making the baby and luckilly you might have him accept you and the child,good luck
Maingi, You are right on the money just like Shiku. Who knows whether the baby father also wanted to have a child to prove his virility?He is lucky as Shiku wrote,to have a child out of the ‘accident’ oif himn not using protection. Honestly, this is a typical Man Eat Man situation both ways.The man is happy to have a son though he gives No damn about the woman:THe woman too is happy to have a child aiming to get mapepe.No matter what and its just a mata ofd time,a child born by a pure Swede is a Swede.
Guru two, please aloow me to ask the same question Maingi posed? what do you call all the nigga bulls we know who shake their butts hard enough to squeeze papers out of a baby? Real bulls? Every way of getting mapepe be it be fake love or baby style is all brutal may be we can only excuse only those who have gone finacial way and they are the minority!
For Milton who dint shake hard,we understand why he is abit hard on this issue.
i would be very glad if this blog stop using the ‘N’….we should always be leaders and role models when it comes to eradicating anything that promotes racism!
KSB: You seem to have carried the word to its logical conclusion thereby missing the humor.
Osewe, there is an old alcoholic woman in Stockholm calling people and saying that Babito has not received any help from anybody. The woman is an example of failure and I wonder whether she has just gone crazy. Two friends have called me and complained that the woman is very rude and that she is undermining the KSB stories for some reasons. She talks like amekunywa changaa ya Dandora. At the same time, Babito is thanking people for helping her with stuff. What is happening?
KSB: It is difficult to comment on the report without further details. I have spoken to Babito and she is fine with the stories. Let us respect one another and desist from using terms like “alcoholic”, “failure” etc to describe other people without evidence. The Babito case is very sensitive and people should act responsibly.
I think that there is more than what we are reading about this Babito story. How can Babito have a relative in Sweden and still look for accommodation when she has just given birth? How could Babito have been made pregnant by a Swedish guy accidentally in a country where condom use is taught from kindergaten? Can someone answer these questions?
Mkenya Mrembo and Michael Kamau, you just made my day/evening. My ribs are bursting from laughter at the description of the woman who is against KSB stories and claims they are fake: too much Dandora changaa.
I also wonder like Kamau, how Babito could have a relative in Sweden, yet has been living with friends. How could the Swedish father of Babito’s child be so naive as to have sex without condoms and now keep off her after she got the child? Why does the Swedish man not live with Babito and their son?
There is a crazy side in this story because Mrembo claims there’s a woman who says nothing was donated, yet Babito thanked Kenyans for their generous donations.
Nick,you are comical in your comment.I can im,agine you rolling with laughter after reeding the two comments you refer to.I fully agree that the strange woman is distracting readers from the main issues and must be spending a lot of time calling her friends to talk negatively about KSB.Instead, she should ask herself why she is so bitter yet this is not her story.
Guys the dint you read,the woman was drunk! maybe she cant even remember calling anyone. Micheal Kamau,Both Babito and the Swede sat and agreed fresh sex is better that sealed sex. Why are you only blaming Babito? dint the Swede attend condom use lessons?
Alex,a nigga is a nigga whether painted green or white! love the word and love yourself. They will always call so!
The baby is here, so won’t it be better to help than argue about who did what wrong, or who tried to cheat who….
Anyway, how can babito be contacted. I have baby stuff that I had planned to sell on blocket and I can send them if she is willing to accept them. I will be back in Sweden mid January.
oops just read later blog and realized Babito got all the help needed for now. God bless her and the baby more.