In one of the most shocking Kenya-Stockholm storos, it has emerged that a white Swedish woman has escaped to Germany with the one year old baby of a paperless Kenyan man after playing a complicated baby-snatching game that has stunned observers and left acquaintances grinning and scratching their heads with their fingers searching for new words to explain the crisis.
The story came to light when the Swedish woman hooked up with another Kenyan man in Germany to play “Father” to the snatched kid. The Swede apparently told the new Kenyan sweet heart that the father of her kid lives in Sweden and that they had split up because of “irreconcilable differences”.
The scandal exploded when the guy contacted KSB to try and establish the identity of the father of the child whom he was about to begin fathering. He wanted to get some tips about the woman from her ex. Apparently, the new Kenyan dude hooked up by the Swede is also paperless and his hope is that the new find could be turned into a “Paper project” so he is currently playing ball although he told KSB that he is basically “a slave” in the house.
According to investigations, the woman in question hooked up with a Kenyan dude in Sweden and after well calculated sessions of “leg-opening”, she was eventually ballooned by the Kenyan. The bull is reportedly a student who had been pursuing his Masters degree at a Swedish University and when the Swedish blondie “landed on his plate” and later began to serve the goods liberally, his thinking was that it was a perfect opportunity to mix up “paper manufacture” with studies as he checked out the future here at the North pole where life appeared to be very sweet.
After the woman downloaded a bouncing baby, things began to take a nasty turn. More and more, the blondie began to abandon him in the house to baby-sit as she went clubbing in town and meeting new clientele. Since the Kenyan had incorporated baby-sitting into his mappepe manufacturing project, he played it calm and loyally began to follow the new rules which had it that the woman could decide to do anything as the boy nodded in approval.
This was apparently done with an agreement that the woman is very independent and that her freedom comes second to nothing. Although the woman also accepted to respect the guy’s freedom, she had an upper hand because she knew that inside the guy’s head was the “paper business” and she had the keys in the bag.
After a few months, the woman began to carry herself around in a way that suggested that she was getting romantically disinterested in her nigger hubby as the bull sunk even deeper into baby-sitting, diaper changing and pram pushing to and from shopping baby food and other stuff on the shopping list.
His studies began to suffer but he could take it because if the “paper work” could materialize, he could resume his studies from where he quit and at any time. One day, the blondie is reported to have disclosed to the guy that her main interest in him was based on her life-time dream of mothering a kid with a blue nigger. She just loved “coloured babies” and once played with the idea of having an artificial insemination with nigger sperms. At about the same time, she met the Kenyan and decided to go for the real thing. After delivery, she reportedly hoped that she would have the interest to stick with the guy although she also threw some doubts.
In short, she was interested in the so called mulatto child or what Kenyans call “point five”. If you don’t get it, Kenyans call it ”Point five” because when a whitie articulates with a blackie and the union results in the manufacture of a “mixie”, the kid is presumed 50% black and 50% white eg 0.5% black/white thus the “point five” name also known as “pointie”.
After the baby was born, the next agenda for the Swedish woman was to use the Kenyan as a baby sitter while maintaining (in the guy’s brain) the illusion of a paper linked to the baby. Once the Kenyan swallowed the bait she could have fun as life continued. The idea was to give the kid time to grow before her project could enter into a new phase.
Punde si punde, the situation began to worsen by the day. The couple was living in an apartment and, with time, the Swedish woman began to return home zonked and late in the night. One night, she crashed in with a Swedish man and they slept on the sofa as the Kenyan guy spent the night in the bed room taking care of the kid. When the guy tried to intervene to find out what was happening, the woman simply told him to shut up and “give space”. The act of popping up with white bulls then became routine and when he tried to find out what was happening, the woman said that “this is Sweden where women have their freedom”. The guy relaxed because he understood that the road to Mappepe could be rough and bumpy.
It is at this point that the guy began to understand that he was facing a major crisis because the love affair between the two of them appeared to have melted the way ice cream melts in the mouth. The Kenyan began to understand that his baby sitting sessions may have been well planned because when he added one plus one, it was adding up to four – himself, his woman, the kid and the new Swedish bulls who appeared to have taken over the woman’s holy shrine and all the goods that went with it as he remained stuck with baby-sitting in the bed room.
Custody Papers Signed
What shocked him was the courage the woman had developed to an extent that she was comfortable with the act of bringing another man in the house even though the woman knew too well that she had left him in the house to baby-sit. A supposedly kind woman he had been licking the other day as he worked his way to greener pastures had now become a source of headache. He had no answers.
Unknown to him was the fact that the woman had much bigger plans that would leave him paperless and probably lead to his deportation back home. The woman had planned to relocate to Germany with the baby and as the guy followed the new rules hoping for better days when he could have his personal number registered at the tax office, the woman continued to further her secret plans. She wanted to move away so that she could forget about the nigger and his attachment to the baby.
Once she finished sketching the outlines of her plan, she is reported to have apologized and became very friendly to her sweet heart whom she had been persecuting. She stopped behaving badly by halting the act of bringing guys to consume her goods at the sofa while she resumed serving the goods to the guy.
She also began taking care of the kid and saying sweet things linked to mappepe. The guy was told that they were meant to stick together for life and that whatever had happened had been a big mistake. She felt extremely sorry for whatever had happened and the Kenyan dude lapped all her words with interest. Then one day, the woman took him to the Swedish authorities to sign some papers. He was told that the papers were based on him confirming that he was the father of the baby before they could move to the Immigration department to do good stuff.
The guy does not understand Swedish and when he went to sign the papers, he had no clue. He was told to agree with everything the authorities said and to pretend that he understood Swedish so as not to “complicate things”. Since, (from his perspective) all events were playing themselves within the context of mappepe, he loyally allowed himself to be led by the nose.
When asked questions by the authorities before signing the papers, he was coached to say “yes” or “that’s right” or “exactly” depending on the situation. He was to watch the woman secretly shaking her fingers placed on the table. One shaking finger was a “yes”, two “exactly” and three meant “that’s right”.
The official read a sentence in Swedish saying something like “You have accepted to give full custody to Birgitta Larsson…”, and when he watched the fingers, it was a three so he said “That’s right”. If confusion arose, the woman would intervene and flash a new finger for him to respond.
At one point, the woman intervened in Swedish saying… “She is saying that you are the father of the baby and you fully understand that you are handing over full custody…” After flashing a finger, the Kenyan dude said “exactly” and it was all over. He was adviced by the woman to say “Tack så mycket” (Thank you very much) with a big smile to the official after the business and things went on smoothly.
Once the papers were signed, the couple apparently returned home to celebrate. The guy had just signed papers giving the Swedish woman full custody of their kid without knowing it.
After gaining full custody, the woman began to make plans to move to Germany with the kid without informing the guy. One evening, she broke the news that she was moving to Germany in two days and thanked the guy “for his time”. The news effectively led the guy into a state of shock. By the time he managed to put his act together to contact the Swedish authorities, the woman had flown to Germany with the kid and began a new life.
According to Swedish authorities, there was nothing they could do because the papers showed that the woman had full custody of the kid. A deeper examination by authorities revealed that it was the guy who signed the custody papers and under the circumstances, the woman had every right to relocate to Germany or any country.
Another issue is that the woman had already signed divorce papers and left them with the Swedish authorities so the guy was technically single and paperless. The Swedish authorities have told the guy that the best he can do is to travel to Germany, take contact with German authorities and begin to follow the case because there is little they could do. This is another sad story of a peperless Kenyan in Sweden.
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And some people were croaking about how much the other paperless woman had rights in Sweden? Didn’t they read Shiku’s experiences?
I’ll be darned but an illegal immigrant can be swayed anyhow. I feel sorry for this guy but the best he can do is to kiss his kid goodbye and go back to his studies. If he is lucky, the Swedish authorities will renew his student viza.
If he is illegal, he cannot travel to Germany. He can chance traveling by train, but would be unlucky if nabbed at the border. Moreover, if the woman has already hooked another Kenyan man, then it is a done deal. She would hand him over to the police for stalking her. Since the sly biatch already signed her part of the divorce, the guy has no claims on her as his wife.
Even if he had Swedish papers, having signed off the child’s custody, and assuming the woman has moved to Germany permanently, then the Kenyan is cooked goose. The legal implications are too many and will not favor him. At most, he can wait for the next 18 years for his child to be old enough to look for him; if she will ever because by then the mother would have psyched her to believe her new lover is her father.
This Kenyan guy had buried his head in the sand when he got hooked by the Swedish woman to the extent that he had no control of his life. She played him like a yo-yo knowing so well that he was inexperienced with women. She is an old “höns” known to have opened her holy shrine to many Black men in their small Swedish town for years. She knew that menopause was soon knocking on her door, and this young man’s fresh “holy water” would fulfill her dreams of having a point-five kid.
The poor Kenyan man’s gravest mistake was not to consult veterans who had been through bitter experiences in the name of making papers. He naively believed that he had found love, so didn’t need others Kenyans’ opinions.
He is now desperately asking around for a woman to impregnate quickly to get papers, because he doesn’t want to return to Kenya. History surely repeats itself.
This woman must be so Evil and manipulative. What she did to the Kenyan man is shocking and inhumane.
Mmmh this case can be appealed the fact that it can be proved this guy understands no swedish then he has a case.
But for a child’s up bringing unless the father is very vigorous chances of him becoming a defacto father are very high when it comes to mother’s hardly are they considered defacto so the guy should contact me i make a case for him then he gets an immigtation lawyer and hand it over to. Also divorce takes a while before it goes through has theirs gone through?
KSB: The best advice so far. I hope the guy is reading this. With this contribution, I will pass your contact to the guy as soon as he shows interest. Kudos.
Hii ni double standard,yule paperless chick na huyu paper -dad wanatofauti ngani?Mmoja ni jamaa na chick.The men are so positively involved now but are on attack on the chick.
Dame, nobody is favoring the man. He was here on a student viza in the beginning, so was not illegal as the totally paperless woman. If he stopped studying then changed his viza status by marrying and got divorced, before getting permanent residency, then he is now paperless. The only difference is he already got a kid contrary to the paperless woman, though taken away. I see no double standards because so far, the comments have touched his weaknesses also.
The language on the paperless woman’s discussion was tough when Grace began attacking men, otherwise many sympathized with her.
Fatuma has also offered a solution, something which might not be possible so far, for the paperless woman.
Is this Obama mania? you know many white chicks rushed to Kogelo to get the mix(recipe),that caused a black man to lead the highest office in the world.
I feel for my brother, but Mungu yuko. Atakupa njia usi give up!
It is funny how people feel sorry for Africans coming here and use swedes to get papers here. No-one sympathize with all the white women who are left alone after two years, when the deal is done!!! And all the kids who grow up without the father!!! Runaway men are accepted, but runaway women are automatically bitches.
Joy, who uses who in the paper making process is so individual and always involves both Swedes and Kenyans, whether men or women.
Ironically, if you make a random check omong Kenyan men, you will find that a great majority were told (mostly by their former Swedish spouses), to pack up their bags and leave after the so-called “baby-sitting period”.
Joy, you are missing the point here. You are failing to appreciate the fact that “paper business” is very complicated and every case has its own unique features. It is not just white Swedish women being used by African men in “paper love” affairs. African men have also been used by their fellow African women for the same purpose.
Likewise, African women have been used by African men while Swedish men have been used by African women. In this case, the Swedish woman is evil to say the least for how do you escape with someone’s baby to another country after admitting that she was only interested in the baby?
Don’t try to narrow the problem in a bid to try and draw sympathy for Swedish women because while there are several nice Swedish women out there, there are also evil ones doing the rounds looking for African men they can exploit sexually then dump.
Joy: Runaway Dads are JERKS! Hope this balances the vituperations against women.
Missing Point #10, am glad you really saw through the desperate jabs from Joy. Mimi has also given her a sarcastic response because she is merely trying to balance an intricate matter by mentioning about the so-called “runaway dads”
There are so many issues which break up male-female relationships. Sometimes I weigh the odds that must have been against President Obama’s father for him to have left him at a very yound age. The President’s parents were not able to document the reasons behind their split. Whoever knows can tell us. His mother also later parted ways with her second Indonesian husband and returned to the USA.
Many Kenyan men in Sweden have been ordered out of their secure homes by both Swedish men and women minus their kids after the usual period of bringing them up. They are later invited to visit them only a few times a month if they are lucky.
We also know of many Swedish and Kenyan women who switch men at will by making them papers and mistreating them in the process, such that the men have no choice but to leave after they secure their residency.
Thanks ajabu for seeing the sarcasm in my reply to Joy. I wonder why she used such sweeping words, yet this thread has both sympathy and condemnation like the other one of the paperless woman.
As mentioned in responses #9 and #10, the splitting of couples and ultimately their children is not a matter that can be explained in a few words.
Users (both men and women) are found in all races and places including Kenyan villages and towns. It is therefore naive of Joy to take sides in this manner. In my opinion, Swedes are users too especially those who cannot matchmake with others in their own race and choose Africans whom they brand “lowest” within the human race.
I believe that most Swedes who marry or have long-term relationships with African men or women cannot compete successfully within their “love chain”. Otherwise why mix with people that their own race deem inferior?
Osewe has documented in the past, at least two cases where our own women were used by Swedish men for various reasons here in Stockholm, while in relationships.
THANK YOU Joy,you said it.The men are even calling him “brother“,women are seen like bitches ,typical when we see the paperless chick na hepa man.
Hello,
It is fine to deliberate.There is a book all should order and read. It is written by Gordon Livingston MD, perhaps all the bleeding will stop after the first chapter.The book is titled “Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart”
Thanks
Ean Jaluo
Otieno Odera
I have heard more than once that whites are to be used and then one marries one of ones own. Racism gose both ways. And it’s an expreience for many that when the Kenyan or any other African gets one’s papers, many tend to show his or her true face, cause when he/she has his/her papers, they relax because they don’t need to be the “underdog” anymore, which the swede notice and that is the time the relationship goes rotten, and yes, the swede throws the African out, being disappointed that he/she was not the person he/she seemed to be. Especially when the man stopps doing housework, claiming his alledged African lifestyle, running outside with his homeboys demanding that the woman should accept it. But women are always bitches, and men are stusd, no matter the colour.
Joy, when you deal with what you hear, it borders on gossip. Real life shows clearly that the way most Swedish women treat paperless African men is inhumane in the name of demanding gender equality.
Somebody reasoned here that given the racial hierarchy created by the white race that deems blacks the lowest, any Swede choosing to be with a black then cannot compete to be with a fellow white Swede. Many Kenyan men who were once married to Swedish women, have always confessed after their breakups that they were treated as sub-humans.
You can call men whatever you want or continue claiming women have been called bitches here, but it has been noted that men and women have suffered in the name of relationships in Sweden regardless of the races involved. Some of the suffering happened even when the word “Love” was being used liberally by the oppressor.
I know of Kenyan women who have had to endure with the presence of other women in their matrimonial beds when they were married to Swedish men. The same has happened within Kenyan marriages.
I once saw a Kenyan woman slapping her then paperless husband while insulting him in public just because he was vulnerable. He kept quiet throughout the humiliating period of making papers. Now this was a Kenyan woman following what she believed was correct since women are supposed to be above men according to Grace who commented in the earlier paperless woman’s thread.
This is how daft some are when they copy things that have no cultural grounding among us, because when reality beckons on our doorsteps, we are still black African immigrants.
Let us wait for Shiku who has more realistic stories than you Joy who keeps feeding us Yiddish. Somebody even offered to call men JERKS to please you, but you are hellbent to grieve over Kenyan women.
Joy, in your latest post, you sound even more confused. For you, split ups between African and Swedish couples have more to do with racism and not normal matrimonial differences which cannot be sorted out. The point you are missing is that much of the splits are actually based on cultural incongruence or cultural incompatibilities.
The amusing aspect of your contribution is that you admit that Swedes have a tendency of forcing Africans into playing the “underdog” but what you do not realize is that this could be due to racism on the part of the white woman.
Within the marriage institution, the European concept of “equality of the sexes” is in direct contradiction/competition with the African concept of “gender responsibilities” and when the white woman begins to replace “gender responsibilities” the African male knows with “equality of the sexes” made in Europe, the ensuing contradiction is what produces conflict that, more often than not, leads to a split.
Taken logically, the element of racism is also misused by you in your twisted reasoning. If racism is a factor in the situation, how can a white racist fall in love with an African in the first place? The understanding is that a racist white woman should be moving away from non whites and not tying up relationships to mother kids with black people. You are trying to use a fallacy to advance your argument, probably because you have no grasp of the complexity of the subject matter.
The issue of the African who tries to free himself from dish washing, vacuum cleaning, laundry and cooking can be associated more with African upbringing in Africa and in an environment where gender bias is rife. Cultural practices tend to favour men in Africa and this moulds male African behavior. This does not mean that gender bias or oppression of women in Africa is correct. Rather, it is the reality.
It is due to this “dominance effect” that Africans who land here begin to view themselves as “slaves” when they have to do domestic cores traditionally reserved for women in Africa. The African quest for freedom from the white woman is not due to racism but due to cultural contradictions whose impact leaves the African male with the feeling that his manhood has been stolen. Do try to educate yourself about these issues instead of giving them a simplistic treatment here at KSB.
To Joy: What is your problem? You want Kenyan men to be condemned in toto yet not all fit into the framework of “Evil” aka users. Instead, initiate a debate that spans name calling considering that both sexes (men and women) have issues. We can keep on branding men as useless or whatever, yet our issues will always remain the same. Objectivity is important in understanding the bizarre happenings among us.
I am a woman who made papers through a Swedish man yet my experiences with him would fit a book or a full movie. I urge you to be careful when defending the Swedes. Also, your condemnation of Kenyan men would be credible if you gave examples.
Who cares in Sweden as long as you mind your own business and do your stuff? Joy is just stuck up with fecal matter in her rectum so takes sides without evidence.
All Kenyans should make the best of their stay in Stockholm because time moves so fast and before you know it, you are a pensioner.
Am an empowered and proud Kenyan woman who differs with all the acquired trash among Kenyan women concerning male-female equality in Sweden. I will always be a Kenyan regardless of my residential status in Sweden yet am doing fine.
Missing Point #18, I commend you for the worthwhile contributions countering the confused JOY. You have explained so much yet she/he seems to be confused and thinks that Swedish women are the only sufferers within their relationships. I say NO!
I will repeat that in this society, when a Swedish person (man and woman) decides to be in a relationship with an African man or woman, it is because he/she cannot fit into their hierarchy of love. I mean since the white race deems the African as inferior given their own racist thinking, then why hook up with a black man?
This thread proves that for the Swedish woman, a point five child means that: “I did a black African man” but in reality will not give him second looks after he has donated his sperms.
For those Kenyans who are NOT brainwashed to think that they are “White”, I hope such columns will help them to rethink their lost identities, meaninh IGNORANCE.
“You will never be White even if you use cosmetics or attain a Swedish passport”.
Joy, even our african -men look for good women,so being used can come up if the white woman does not give as required.
This story sounds familiar to someone I knew, though it has been deliberately manipulate, altered and defaced in order to turn it into gossip. But if it the same guy, I don’t think he was stupid for he was never paper-less and neither was at any time after papers. Compared to some of us who could not earn 30 credit points after trying their feet into a Swedish University, the guy joined the Kenyan tax payers club and he is bound for Doctorate program at Rutger University School of Engineering after finishing his studies. I think he deserves some respect not sympathies resulting from unsound gossip. Kudos dude!
KSB: You could be referring to the Uppsala case which has not yet hit KSB and where the destination was France. I was personally in contact with the subject. Take it easy with your accusations.
Herbie, why the sour tone? There is nothing twisted in this story because it happened as such. As for the Uppsala case which is in the works as noted by Osewe, you again missed the point since some of us know exactly why things went that way.
Herbie seems to be stuck in some time warp fuelled by cow-dung. For heavens sake, this man deserves sympathy especially after the trauma of “losing” his daughter in such a situation. Herbie suffers from one thing: APATHY. Can he give a better version of this story that he calls gossip?
@paddypawa Please read again my comments and respond accordingly. But if your intellectual capacity cannot conceive, perceive and distill simple phrases, haya nijaribu kutafsiri katika lugha ya kiswahili baadaye.
Herbie: Tafsiri kwa Kiswahili tuone jinsi ulivotapanyika bongo.
i would start by drowning the little basterd in a bucket of water,then i would hang her by her feet from a rope directly over a small coal fire,as for the nigr,shoot his ass,they got alot of nerve dating white women,he just got used doing something he thought he’d benefit from illegally,typical brown terd,that blonde lady really is a disgrace and a fukn perverted negrophile,i would let her brains cook over that fire while her pointe had a little swim.
kill em all…
Deport all of them to Africa immediately! Kenya needs intelligent and clever people like this.
This European and American experiment with suicidal demographics needs to be aborted.