April 24, 2026

8 thoughts on “Kenyan Lady “At War” With Countryman due to “Shit Talk”

  1. This is an example of the nosy Kenyans who think that they have answers for everything. This man has now become an enemy of the woman because of getting into her business without her permission.

    I encourage the woman to keep calling to remind the man that he was wrong to give her mother false information. He should be strongly condemned for messing up the lady’s reputation.

  2. Having been married to a Swedish man for 10 years, I find it ridiculous that some Kenyan sistas think that men in Sweden are regarded lowly. I have been following the input by ajabu and whatever logic he raises is instead countered by noise from Grace and dame.

    I don’t see anywhere within the Swedish framework of “facts” as labled by Grace, which describe men as number 4. The problem with such noisemakers is that they think forcing stereotypes on others make them more right.

    In my opinion, ajabu gave his mind using various examples which the two women ignored yet he only shared his experience. The original thread was posted by Osewe and all have their democratic right to partake without being branded this or that. Perhaps the men you have encountered feel they are lower than dogs, but not my husband.

    By the way Grace and dame, the late Kavinga had all the right information, but being careless and having the “know-all” Kenyan attitude that you are displaying, took everything for granted.

    I know the current lady and believe me, she messed up big time in the beginning of the pregnancy, a fact that is now hindering her moves. She must repair things very fast. You will be surprised that she knows all that is required when a paperless woman is pregnant. The issues causing problems are so different and I won’t reveal them here. There are two other pregnant paperless Kenyan women who don’t have similar issues because they did their stuff right at the beginning of the pregnancy. I think this thread is not about fighting men (as I see you are doing), but to share experiences for solutions.

    All the best as you help her, but there is no point branding men names which even Swedish men would find ridiculous. I have never read any Swedish law regarding men as lower than dogs, unless they are known to you only.

  3. Lili, first of all, ur commenting on the wrong article. Grattis! ur married to a Swedish man. You seem to forget that the lady in Q IS BEING PUSHED TO HAVE AN ABORTION. Ajabu kept on lamenting how the guy will pay child support for the next 18yrs. So, it’s ok 4 u if the lady does some ghetto abortion and probably looses her life? The thing is, if u can interpret between the lines about what l commented, u will see that l, have mentioned that when it comes to the welfare of children and women, the men has no say.

    To put it as it is, ur not the first woman to be married to a swede….no, no, no, and ur not the last one. Ur the kind who thinks the world revolves around them and not caring about hundreds of Kenyans who come here in search of greener pastures and yet ur not even ashamed to bring that terrible , tragic incident about Juliet. There r men who impregnate women here and they’re paperless, do u hear other women encouraging them to abort so that the guy doesn’t get (PUT)?. Iam done here, we also have kids, Swedish men married over 18yrs and we don’t talk about it. U REALLY THINK UR ON THE KNOW? IF U KNOW THE LADY, WHY THE HELL DO U FIGT HER INSTEAD OF HELPING HER? BUT, PROBABLY, U DON’T HAVE ANY PROBLEM WHEN KENYANS MEET KUCHANGA SO THEY CAN TRANSPORT THE BODY TO DEVASTATED FAMILIES. As l said earlier, l can help anybody, man, woman, anybody….this has nothing to do with gender…..l can help wherever l can….bye, bye.

  4. Where there is smoke, there must be fire. Whatever is done in darkness will one day come to light. There is no way this guy would have reported to the lady to her mother back in Kenya if there wasn’t some basis for it.

  5. Lili,if we could reason with you we shall never overcome some women problem.Her intention are bad,but what has come up now should be solved,pregnancy.Children have been born under different intentions,some people are married,are in-love,are raped and paper-issue,etc.
    I respect my man very much and he is not lowly like you are putting it.
    But most women ,especially in our society are regarded lowly.The man received the goods which he should also take the consequence that come up,in this case pregnancy.

  6. Grace, ajabu was right to repeatedly mention that you are controlled more by emotions more than common sense. There cannot be any mature exchange here with your kind of thinking. If, as you had noted earlier, that you want to help the lady, then why banter? Just as mentioned by Betty, the reality does not exist in cyberspace. This is my last comment to you.

  7. Whats ur problem wewe mamma, if lam controlled by emotions like u put it, what the heck is wrong with that? Kwaheri dada…l don’t have time coz ur the one who started this thing…lf she gets my contact and write to me, lam going to stand by her a hundred percent.

  8. The damn gossiper must have been holding a grudge against the woman before this and might have felt this was the best moment to revenge. It was so pathetic of him to do this because the woman did not send him to her mother.

    I applaud her for bringing this in the open so that in future, such habits should not be repeated by others.

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